14 Women Share Their Dating Struggles That Are Bound to Surprise Many Men

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The inception of dating apps and social media has brought about one of the most contentious environments known to humankind. It’s getting to the level of politics and religion in terms of the divisiveness it creates.

On the one hand, you have men complaining about how modern dating has become an impossible feat and that women are too demanding. While on the other, you have women clapping back, saying that dating for them is not all sunshine and roses as some men think.

Being a man myself, it’s easier to relate to the plight of other men. After all, I can only experience dating from the male vantage point. But with the likes of Reddit, this need not be the way.

There is a r/AskWomen thread titled “What is the most difficult aspect in dating for you aside from security concerns?” that I find eye-opening. It provides some enlightening commentary about dating directly from women themselves.

I have hand-picked the top 14 most insightful comments to share today so that we, as men (and women too), can understand what dating is like from the other side. This way, we can all learn what to do and what not to do when connecting with each other...